hi ronk,
thank you for your input! the bottle of wax was on the floor in front of the door he used to go into the kitchen and he had moved it. i had also told him i was going to wax the floor. i heard him go in not long after I finished. that's why I asked him why he went in, it didn't make sense to me. I don't really care about perfectly waxed floors but he seemed to show no respect for my work. Finding out he was hungry explained that. He can't wait once he feels hunger. But then getting mad at me for asking "why?" really disturbed me.
I agree he may forget things and be mad about that. And I hadn't thought that solving his hunger problem + respecting the floor was multi-tasking but I guess it is! Still, the anger directed at me.....I don't understand that.
Laurie
ronk said:
hi Laurie, what probably happened is he forgot wax was on floor and then the inappropriate anger ensued as he erred at the processing of your tone, I would be very careful and handle him with extreme care. My question is why ask why he went in there- this just irritated more cause he misconceived it as being confrontational I am guessing- judging from my own experiences. Keep in mind he cannot help it but hopefully will improve, my heart goes out to you as I recall myself getting angry for minor things, keeping you in thoughts and prayers tc~