Hi
Have not posted in a while. Going to have my 1 year angiogram the 3 of June. I can talk on here because for 1 you understand for 2 we don't know each other therefore I can share with out judgment. I need to release this so I can regroup...if that makes sense..so I am venting...not asking for anything but an ear or 2
4 years ago my husband lost a 6 figure income job, the company was sold and being a high paid executive he was booted... we took all our saving and 401 and opened a computer repair business. We were doing Ok... tight but OK... then in April last year I totaled my van...did not think I was injured...life went on...in July it was discovered I huge 17 cm aneurysm behind my left eye... my choice was cut my head open to fix the aneurysm and probably lose my eyesight in the left eye or do this new procedure called Pipeline. I choose the pipeline and glad I did. Well you all know it takes time to recover from these things, less than if they cut my head open but I am still in recovery. I still have memory issues and occasional migraine or bad headache. But over all doing well...could ditch the weight gain though!
I was off work 6 months, being tight in money already this really put us behind. My husband tried to keep how bad we were so it did not stress me. BUT it came to the point he had no choice. Our house of 14 years that my daughters have grown up in, if we do not come up with 4 months payments $5748.45 May 16th, the mortgage company is going to start foreclosure procedures, we received the letter. I am in shock. I can't believe we went from having it all 4 years ago to losing our house. So I started doing everything I can to generate the money...who wouldn't right? My family is so pissed saying I am begging and blah blah blah. I have been doing my own fundraiser with Avon fundraising and fundme campaigns...we are not getting too far. My family is not helping me yet my sister gets a $14,000 tummy tuck, my mom spends more than 4 payments at the casino. I should say I love my mom and my mom is willing to loan some money but we cant pay her back so no point. When my husband and I had money we donated all the time. We run a ministry to help people get off crack, we donated to our church all the time...not as much as we probably should...Lord forgive us. God I hope no one here knows my family. Our Church has helped us with things like getting kids sports uniforms and Christmas so we don't feel we can ask for more from them...I just don't know what to do. I have over 1300 friends on facebook I even asked if everyone one would donate $5.00 it would help us catch up...very few people helped. We have our paper work going to StepForwardMichigan but I don't think it will be on time to stop the foreclosure. The only solution I can see is if we get the money...but very people are helping.
Any way I needed to blab that out I can't on facebook. Every since my husband lost his job our "friends" scattered like cockroaches when you turn on a light. So I feel alone and desperate and don't know what to do everything keeps happening we can't seem to get caught us...last week my brakes went out, yesterday day my daughter smashed heads with the catcher at home base at her softball game and has a concussion...she had double vision and broke down crying she might have a brain aneurysm. God please
Thank you for listening. Advise is welcome
Camille