Nicole, As the Mom of two teenagers and a survivor myself, I just had to respond to your post. I’m so sorry that you are going through this at such a young age. When someone suffers a rupture, it affects the entire family, not just the patient. It is a miracle that we survive, but the other side of survival is learning to live with your “new” brain. It can be difficult at times for everyone involved. Have you talked with her GP and explained her behavior? I would ask that she be evaluated and see if she needs medication for depression (very common with an aneurysm) or maybe a therapist to talk with, or maybe both. It is a major adjustment for your Mom, her whole life has changed and sometimes it can become overwhelming. At only 19 you also need to get some kind of help with your Mom, just to get a break from the worry of taking care of her. Can you speak with her doctor and ask for suggestions such as a neuro evaluation, possibly some kind of cognitive therapy, or even a companion to come to the house two days a week, for just a few hours a day? I am not a medical person so these are just suggestions. I would start with her doctor and take it from there. Your Mom would be so proud of you for taking care of her so well, she’s just not able to relay that to you I’m sure. Please take care of yourself and keep us posted on how you both are. Kim
Hello Celestine,
For a comprehensive and easy read on the situation you describe above I refer you to the book titled, “Stroke and The Family: A New Guide”, by Joel Stein, MD. It explains it all there and much more.
Harold Fernández
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