What is the saying about the only stupid question is the one that wasn’t asked….ask away! We understand your concerns better than most, so nope, not tired of you.
Remember that for those of us who ruptured, our stories will be much different. Also for those of us that had endovascular repairs rather than a craniotomy our stories can be different too. Be mindful of whose story you’re reading.
I would have my home ready for all possible outcomes. I call it taking care of my house and House. Do all your heavy cleaning and the easy ones too, it makes coming home better.
As Merl says and a whole lot of folks, have meals prepared before hand so you can just throw it in the microwave. You might want to check your local grocery store to see if they have fresh meals for sale, Publix does these as my SIL often picks some up for her family. Make sure you have a good month’s supply of cat food as well. If you’re on any medication, make sure they are filled or you have someone who can pick them up for you - just talk to your pharmacist. Finish having your will updated if you haven’t done that. Like Merl, I also had to drink sport drinks after each endovascular procedure, not my favorite drink (actually made the stuff back in the day when I was going to college) but I found some I like so you might want to figure out the ones you like and stock up.
Short term disability depends on the State you live in and your insurance company. When I lived in California, back through the early ‘80’s, the State had short term disability. Here in NC, it’s all on your insurance company. I’m not sure what Washington does.
Your returning to work depends on how you fair and your doctor. It is different for everyone. Someone had me returning to work whilst I was still in NSICU, seems she got me mixed up with someone else, kinda hard to go back to work when you’ve got IV’s stuck in you🤪. Some doctors give a total release and others want their patients to go part time for awhile but it depends on how you did during surgery.
Check with your doctor on how long you’ll have to stay in hospital. Again it will depend on how you faired during your craniotomy. I’ve read where a lot stay one day to three days. I believe it’s all on what your doctor wants, they get to control the show.
I remember my stay in NSICU, it’s exhausting. @oct20 wrote a good, funny post about it. Basically there’s no to little rest in NSICU. The RNs have to come and check you every 15 minutes, the machines are making all their noises as well. Rounds start around 0700 or sometimes earlier and you’ll get all the neurological tests. If you’re in a teaching hospital, there will be a handful of doctors coming in but one does all the tests.
Take your sunglasses, most everyone, no matter the type of procedure, has some type of sensitivity to sunlight afterwards.
I believe the fogginess and short term memory issues are par for the course and it depends on the person how quick they recover. Besides the doc being in your brain and changing a thing or two, the anesthesia plays a big role and we often forget that. You will need to stay hydrated to help your body flush it out which can be easier said than done for some. Also check with your team on how much protein you should eat per day. The dietician they sent in said minimum of 90 grams which is what the average person should eat. WHO says 120 grams for the average person, last time I looked. Having brain surgery means trying for the higher number in my opinion as your brain needs both protein and hydration to heal. If your school has a registered dietician you could just ask them. I recall the county I worked for had an RDN that we didn’t have to pay for the first few visits and after that, it was a minimum charge.