I am currently 36 weeks pregnant, and I have an rupture brain aneurysm, which is 3mm and it is located near superior hypophyseal artery. Sometimes I get really scared and keep on thinking about my life in my child’s life after he or she is born.
Welcome and thanks for posting! You found a ten year old topic and I’m supposed to close them, but I’ll wait awhile to see if anyone responds. You can tell an older post by either seeing the first post and the date it was created or looking to the right when you open to reply. In this case Jul 2015.
I imagine you’re full of “what if’s” right now. I don’t think you’re alone, every about to be mother goes through it that I’ve known, aneurysm or not. We’ve had many members who have delivered healthy happy babies and have had an aneurysm. Usually there’s a Neurosurgeon nearby for a just in case. I don’t recall any who have ruptured while on the delivery table.
I do know that anxiety can raise your BP which you absolutely don’t want to be doing right now. Try to practice some relaxation breathing all the time. I used it whist in NCICU getting Triple H therapy to keep my BP up because of vasospasms. It kept it too low despite the amount they were pumping through the IV and I was told to stop it.
Have you packed you to go bag with everything the hospital recommends yet? Here in North Carolina USA, our hospitals used to give car seats out for the baby to ride home in as it’s one of our State laws. Not sure about where you reside. I’m all excited for you! Is this your first baby? If you don’t have a crib or bassinet, a dresser drawer works just fine! My Grandmother born in 1895 taught me that as they didn’t have a lot of money and were very poor. I was able to teach that to many new mothers (and some fathers) when I worked. New parents are highly discouraged from sleeping with newborns. Many parents do t get ready in time to welcome a new baby home. My Uncle was born premature and Grandma kept him in the bread warmer of her old coal oven. Smart woman! Incubators weren’t a thing back then. Bread warmers aren’t a thing anymore unless you get an old oven or a high end oven here. Sorry for rambling, I’m just really excited for you! I have another story about pregnant women, Dad had an old 1970 Chevrolet 3/4 ton pick up with one ton suspension. Friends of the family and my sister all took a ride in it when they were at the expected delivery date or a few days past, worked every time and they all delivered their babies within five to six hours after the bumpy ride😂
if no one answers by Sunday, I’ll create a new topic for you. What would you like to call it? Do t forget to practice relaxation breathing and do some type of mindfulness. Thoughts for you for a safe delivery both for you and your baby!
Dear Moderator,
Thank you so much for taking the time to email me. Your message truly made me feel better and more hopeful. It was incredibly comforting to hear that you haven’t come across any women who experienced a rupture during pregnancy, that reassurance means a lot to me right now.
I’m writing from India, and yes, I’ve already packed my hospital bag! We haven’t managed to buy a car seat yet, as both my husband and I are just starting our careers and going through a bit of a financial crunch, but we’re staying positive and know everything will work out.
Thank you again for your thoughtful and warm words. I’d be happy to name the new topic “Pregnant and Untreated Aneurysm.”
Warm regards,
Jenis
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It’s done Jenis! Everyone here calls me Moltroub, I think most don’t remember I’m the Moderator here but I have three official back ups aka ModSupport that are wonderful people and you’ll often read their replies. Just call me Moltroub please ma’am I rarely stick to formalities. On very rare occasions do I even have to put my Moderator hat on, except Sundays when I like to do the welcomes when I’m able.
Wow starting your career paths and having a baby! Both a fun and stressful time, hopefully mostly fun. I’ve never been to India, never been to anywhere outside the USA, except Tijuana, Mexico when we first moved to California back in the early 60’s because it was 12 miles away and Dad would get his haircut there. We didn’t need passports to go there back then. Does your area require you to have a baby car seat when you leave the hospital? If so, you may have a friend or family member that knows of someone who will let you borrow it. They grow out of them fairly quickly. There may be some type of organization that helps new families with supplies. Folks around here always go for disposable diapers, we always gift the regular cotton ones that are more difficult to find. Babies are often allergic to some of the more popular disposable ones that are sold here. Best stop, I can talk babies all day long, just ask my great nieces ROFLOL.
Hopefully other members will come share their experiences.
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Hi Jenis,
I didn’t have an aneurysm while pregnant however I had two young children (6 and 9) when my aneurysm ruptured. It is very scary for a mom to face this at any time in their children’s lives including during pregnancy!
All I can say is the good news is they know it’s there which is a huge advantage. You’re also young and the aneurysm is small at this point.
Best wishes for a good birth and welcome to your newest family member!
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Hi, Jenis:
In March 1988, I was 5 months pregnant. When I learned I was pregnant in October 1987, my morning sickness kept getting worse. I kept vomitting, was sensitive to light, had a stiff neck, and bad headaches. One morning in March as I was brushing my teeth, I passed out. I was rushed to the ER where the doctor thought I had meningitis, so they did a spinal tap. That came out extremely bloody when the fluid should’ve been clear. After numerous x-rays and various testing, we learned I had an aneurysm that was already leaking down my spine. During my 6th month of pregnancy, my baby and I had a 22 hour microscopic surgery to clip the aneurysm. I had my baby 3 months later, and she was perfectly healthy!
My daughter is now 37, and has 2 teen girls. She graduated high school with honors, and attended college. While I always worry that she will inherit my aneurysm, all of these have proven she to be healthy and thriving.
Just please remain positive. I’m sure your baby will be just fine. Yes, I know, easier said than done! But if we can come out on the other end fine, I know you and your baby can do the same! My best wishes and prayers sent your way!
~ Rosie
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I can’t respond to your concern, but completely understand it. My Annie burst before I was married or pregnant. Amazing you are aware of it, though, so you and your medical team can address any concern that arises. Lot of good, strong wishes of health for you and your baby.
As for a car seat, I adore Moltroub and the wisdom he shares, but with this point I agree with his second point – I don’t recommend you follow his first suggestion to borrow one. Now there are carseats that adapt as your child grows, too. I don’t know what may be available in terms of social services in India, but if you can’t afford a carseat, it may be worth researching if there are any programs that offer free ones. Here in my city in Florida the police and/or fire departments do occasional safety fairs in which they give them away. There are also some other programs we have that sponsor the gift of carseats. Stay strong and good luck!
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@Jenis168 just checking in to see how you’re fairing. You’ve been on my mind quite a bit. I think you’ve got another week to go, but babies generally decide when they want to see the world.