Hi…my husband suffered a ruptured aneurysm on 29th march, 2011 and subsequently underwent a neurosurgical clipping. His prognosis on admission was extremely poor but since the surgery he has shown immense improvement.
As we approach his first anniversary I reflect back on the year gone by and thank god and his wonderful doctor for the progress that he continues to make. At the same time, I cannot help but hope to see the day when all goes back to “as it was earlier”.
Does that ever happen though ? My husband Gautam is very positive, happy and optimistic - at times, I find myself leaning on him for support rather than the other way round.
As a new member of this foundation, I hope to draw from others experiences and support to get me through this - as positive as my husband is.
Gautam is dysphasic, remembers what happened 10 years ago with remarkable vividity but finds it difficult to recollect what he had for breakfast, drives on his own but finds it hard to read and write.
He has gone back to work part time but does not think he will hold onto his job for long.
How can I help him and my own self?
I have seen and read numerous cases of aneurysm survivors coming through with a near complete recovery. Will Gautam be one of them ?
By no means do I mean to come across as selfish and confused - I just want everything to be as it was and wake up thinking this was a dream. Having said all of this, I am a huge believer in God and I know He is watching out for us. Gautam has a great doctor and I know he has been provided the best healthcare, so I hope I am able to overcome my own fears and self doubt.