Hi Joyce,
Welcome to the Brain Aneurysm Support Community!
I understand that you are (1) looking for others who are dealing with aneurysm/s, and (2) are interested in developing coping skills. You are in the right place, and I truly admire your desire to gain new knowledge and information.
While your doctor is not sure if surgery is suitable given your age, I have learned (having read many posts in this community), that there are all sorts of coping methods. You are not alone and we are here for you.
How are you finding the site so far, Joyce? Have you tried clicking the magnifying glass in the upper right hand corner? I often type words into the search bar to help me find discussions that I am interested in.
We are here if you have any questions or concerns.
Danielle