Hello one and all:
I am David. I am 44 yo male who on Feb 11th 2011 suffered the worst headache of my life. I woke up that morning with double vison. If it hadn't been for my wife coming home and tell me we are going to the ER, I wouldn't be here typing this today. After several people looked at cat scans and MRI's one neurologist spotted my "annie" behind my right eye. I was rushed to UVA medical Center on a Friday night and had my "coiling"done on Feb 13th. They told us at that time I am the proud owner of 8 titianum coils.
By the time the shock wore off, I started reflecting on what had happened. The only thing I knew about aneurysms was that my best friend of twenty years and another friend's mother had died of theirs. I remembered how everyone was shocked and freaking out over why it happened to them and why they left so quickly from this world. I had a hard time(and still do) getting over the fact that my friend was gone. My last memory of her was in ICU on a breathing tube.
For the most part my recovery has been good. (Humor was the only thing keeping me from falling apart.) I am blessed that my headaches have decreased and when one comes I don't freak out like I used to do. The only lasting physical issue I have is that my right pupil is larger that than the left. If I am outdoors I have to wear sunglasses. Once a month or so I get what I call "light sensitive attacks/headaches" that last about a half day.
It has taken about 6 months for my energy level to get better but like everyone else I have "drain" days. There are some days when I feel like I am "all thumbs" and it feels like I can't do anything right. For my 6 month followup they had to add more coils. My doc said that the likelihood of that happening was less than 1 percent, but as luck goes I was that one percent.
I know I am blessed for my recovery, hell for that matter than I am still here, but recently I have been feeling sad, (don't know if you call it depressed or not) and I think I am going thru some type of survivor's guilt. Everyone knows the probing questions, why did I make it but my friend didn't, why are you feeling this way knowing how blessed you are while others are worst off than you...etc. I can't help why the way I am feeling but it is starting to concern me. If anyone else has been thru this situation or would like to "throw their soap box to stage" please do so. I welcome all comments. I have read some of the experiences on this site but need more. Thanks in advance and sorry for being long winded.