Hi there, figured I'd explain my story in a little more detail. Thanks to those who have replied to the more specific questions/worries I've posted.
Until Dec. 2011, there was pretty much nothing interesting in my health history. Then, I had a mild stroke. Luckily with no deficits. However, I did learn: 1) I had a DVT in my right leg which had absolutely no symptoms, 2) I have a PFO (small opening in heart, 25% of people have this), and 3) I have Protein C deficiency (clotting disorder), likely inherited from my dad (history of clots). So, I went on lifetime Warfarin and have been doing fine with it. It has reduced my worries greatly.
Now, on July 15 of this year, I had a brief episode of double vision. Having learned to not take weird things like this lightly, I went to the ER. Ruled out a stroke, thankfully, but an aneurysm was discovered incidentally. Said it wasn't related to double vision (no explanation for that really).
Was referred to neurosurgeon in Seattle and have met with him and had a angiogram. The aneurysm is behind my left eye and is 5 mm with a wide neck. The 2 surgeons I spoke with agreed that coiling with a stent would be best. I have been ready to say "yes! let's do it!" until I started researching. Actually, I was fearful of joining a forum because I was afraid I would read mostly stories of things that went wrong. And, to be honest, reading stories on here does scare me because of things that have gone wrong.
I am 49, married, and have the most precious 11 year old daughter. I want to be here for her, and am so scared of either ignoring the aneurysm or of taking action and something going wrong. I still have a lot of life to live! In reading about stents, I am concerned because they are so new and don't have a long track record. Feel better about the coiling, since it's been around longer. That stent will be in there forever and I'm worried with my clotting tendency that I'll have a stroke during the operation or I'll always be worried about getting one after. Since the aneurysm isn't causing symptoms and is small, I'm wondering if I could live with the fear of rupture and do nothing.
I'm thinking I need to schedule another meeting with the surgeon and get some more specific mathematical odds from him. And also consider getting a different surgeon's opinion. I guess it's fear of aneurysm bursting vs. fear of putting something in my body which will form a clot leading to stroke. Or of messing with something that maybe didn't have to be messed with - I feel fine now - what if I don't after the procedure? I am thankful I live in a time where there are options, but it still all seems kind of dicey.
So, there you have it. Glad to be on this site and hearing from others. :)