Welcome to Ben’s Friends Katy! We are very glad that you joined us, both because of the support and insight that you will gain here, as well as the support you will be able to provide others. Your peers, like yourself, are looking for help, and having someone who is passionate about helping others such as yourself excites us! I empathize with you- it must be challenging to deal with these recent events, and we are here to support you every step of the way. Feel free to start a new topic, or go through past discussions (I find the search icon on the top right hand corner to be very helpful in finding discussion threads of interest). Please keep us posted on your story, we look forward to hearing back from you Katy!