Post aneurysm

One good thing to come about after all the angst... you do re assess things.. you let slide all the " things that may have @@ssed you off previously ( don't sweat the small stuff), BUT the big stuff, that starts coming out from under the carpet.. and you start wondering. why am I putting up with/living with that???But then it takes a whole lot of energy to to actually make that drastic change??

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Comment by Denise H on January 26, 2013 at 11:19am: Oh yes, you do start seeing that big stuff more clearly..I stay angry for days. Its not healthy. My PED was in Jun and things are catching up with me and getting harder to ignore. I was cleared to start yoga again this Monday after cataract surgery and post angio..hoping it will help my temper.

Comment by ron k on January 25, 2013 at 8:26am: hi anny! so nice to see you again! im so happy to hear your cool as a cucumber! i am way worse feeling like im in a magnafyer but im learning to deal with it. i recently broke off the bleeder valve on my radiator and had a steaming hot gerser in my bedroom-this practilly gave me a nervous breakdown i think. 4 years ago i would have scampered down to the cellar and shut off water calmly. Luckily my brother in law was here and he figured out how to stop water. i felt so out of control and useless. Thank you for posting and giving me the oppurtunity to talk it out- it really helps- im thinking how i can improve myself and instantly help if theres another disaster rather than over reacting. i feel like im being tested and i failed but also i think i'll improve Well cu soon im outa room!

Comment by Carole G. on January 24, 2013 at 6:16pm: Two-thirds of my life has been post annie. I think i've progressed through the normal range of emotions for whatever age group I was in at the time. Wisdom comes from living. However, I will say that retirement is the best because now I can truly decline to be a part of almost anything that would have annoyed me in the past. :-)

Comment by Colleen on January 23, 2013 at 8:47am: Hi Anny...I feel like I am worse...I feel like I sweat everything...seems I am more uptight and feel it shouldn't be like this after everything one goes through with an annie...I get mad at myself and that doesn't help...so now I am just trying to accept "this is me"....wishing you a nice day ~ Colleen